tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post2032846881369879621..comments2023-08-21T09:48:52.111-04:00Comments on LIFE IN A HOLDING PATTERN: A Low PointBrittneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12064316561225211468noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-11201067414108787362011-10-17T21:29:35.557-04:002011-10-17T21:29:35.557-04:00I wish I knew the right thing to say to give you h...I wish I knew the right thing to say to give you hope and make you feel like everything is going to turn out great. I'm here for you if you ever need to talk or just take your mind off of things. I care about you so much and if I can do anything to cheer you up, please let me know and I'll do it. You're going to get through this and I know you're going to have a baby when this is all said and done.Kelly @foodiefreshhttp://foodiefresh.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-51369700942657445022011-10-17T19:46:22.814-04:002011-10-17T19:46:22.814-04:00Have faith that you are doing everything in your c...Have faith that you are doing everything in your control to make this happen. You are not sitting back and just hoping, a baby falls into your lap. This is something that you can be proud of and hold on to. Thinking of you <3Sanahttp://www.supersana.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-83376543182761703762011-10-17T19:38:33.837-04:002011-10-17T19:38:33.837-04:00hugs to you too. the frustration made me cry so m...hugs to you too. the frustration made me cry so many times -and it is just so hard. i don't have words of advice other than be kind to yourself and don't be afraid to turn to your friends for support! <3sarah (SHU)https://www.blogger.com/profile/09785177204149427781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-42449126718645063752011-10-17T10:04:46.814-04:002011-10-17T10:04:46.814-04:00I am so sorry you are having down moment.
Like Ru...I am so sorry you are having down moment.<br /><br />Like Runblondie26 said, I am optomistic for you too! When we conceived Ben I was in the 2WW and had a total breadown. Steve was on a trip during the time I thought I would be o'ing, and I thought we missed the window. I was crying hysterically, and just couldn't get a grip. Low and behold I POAS a couple days after the breakdown and it was +. I had zero, and I mean zero, symptoms before I POAS so I was shocked.<br /><br />I have a friend that took 8 months to conceive their first. In hindsight, she says that it just took 8 months for them to get their Marissa. She is a super great kid, and was worth the wait. Your baby will come...maybe not in your time, but it will happen.<br /><br />Don't laugh, but due to lack of cable at my mom's house the other weekend I watched about 5 minutes of Joel Olsten. One thing that he said that I really love is "what you think you want is ordinary. What God has in store for you is EXTRAordinary" <br /><br />Your extraordinary is about it happen!Joannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06970722739917121208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-23474012886685036682011-10-16T23:31:38.043-04:002011-10-16T23:31:38.043-04:00I'm so sorry you're feeling low, hang in t...I'm so sorry you're feeling low, hang in there. just try to pamper yourself a bit, relax, and just chill. Hoping for the best for you!Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00144512028031455208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-90471618846721648672011-10-16T15:06:16.658-04:002011-10-16T15:06:16.658-04:00I'm sorry dear! Nobody reasonable would blame...I'm sorry dear! Nobody reasonable would blame you for feeling the way you do. I wish you many blessings!MissPinkKatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09995634574557428221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-85503157407567295592011-10-15T08:49:39.808-04:002011-10-15T08:49:39.808-04:00thinking of you!!
HUGSthinking of you!! <br /><br />HUGSPure2raw twinshttp://www.pure2raw.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-66553333205179183842011-10-14T21:23:53.150-04:002011-10-14T21:23:53.150-04:00Girl, my heart is breaking for you. I'm so sor...Girl, my heart is breaking for you. I'm so sorry you've hit a low point - I know those all too well. The good news is, you're right, you WILL bounce back and find a happy place again, I promise. You may not ever be the same person you were before the loss, before fertility issues... but you'll definitely be happy again. <br /><br />"In the end, it'll all be ok. If it's not ok, it's not the end." <br /><br />Get together soon? We can drink wine and dig ourselves out of low places. <3<br /><br />LindsLindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00006483610701810334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-17800462455864686642011-10-14T20:43:59.193-04:002011-10-14T20:43:59.193-04:00I wish I could give you a hug :). Cyberhug instea...I wish I could give you a hug :). Cyberhug instead! I hope this is your month and when I got pregnant this time I thought we missed our chance. The husband was super busy at getting home so late from work. We didnt' have a chance to TTC till after I ovulated and it worked. Fingers crossed :)Liz @ runbakeracehttp://www.runbakerace.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-70525349388345806522011-10-14T15:21:47.468-04:002011-10-14T15:21:47.468-04:00Brittney,
I don't really know you well, but t...Brittney,<br /><br />I don't really know you well, but the times I have met you, you seem to be a naturally joyful person. This breaks my heart, and I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know how hopeless it can feel to not have control of your emotions and feelings, and I hate seeing someone else having to struggle with that. I've never dealt with the issues you are dealing with now, but I just felt led to let you know that I care. I'm sorry your going through this.Whithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08276369030295809239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-82253076528748198802011-10-14T13:47:32.913-04:002011-10-14T13:47:32.913-04:00I agree that it's hard to leave things like th...I agree that it's hard to leave things like this up to fate. But you all just have to keep trying and not give up. I've shared this before but it was three years before my husband and I got pregnant. <br /><br />It's frustrating because you hear about women who've gotten pregnant on like the first try almost. But I knew God had a plan for us and he has one for you all too. I will keep you all in prayer and pray He speeds up your journey to motherhood.K. Elizabeth @ YUMMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03025555107482553344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-32137998961320516152011-10-14T13:44:56.145-04:002011-10-14T13:44:56.145-04:00This does suck and it's NOT fair. I really hop...This does suck and it's NOT fair. I really hope this month is it for you though! :)Jenhttp://www.runnerstrials.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-19531381899286758902011-10-14T13:11:40.581-04:002011-10-14T13:11:40.581-04:00I'm sorry Brit :( I hope this is your month. I...I'm sorry Brit :( I hope this is your month. I'd be feeling optimistic with your timing.<br /><br />I was wondering why you were driving back form Houston. Now it makes sense. The coincidence is pretty incredible that Melissa married a pilot too. I hope we can meet-up at some point too!Nullhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13104978798049257495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-56317417557411102142011-10-14T11:59:02.775-04:002011-10-14T11:59:02.775-04:00We're TTC too and having difficulty. I was thi...We're TTC too and having difficulty. I was thinking the same thing this morning, it's all about having that control. I always want to be in control because I want to feel prepared. Not knowing when you'll get pregnant is so frustrating. It's like you can't really plan things because "you might get pregnant." I'm super jealous that my husband is training for a marathon and I can't because I might get pregnant. <br /><br />Even though you first chose you blog name because of what you were going through in the past...trying to get pregnant is having life in a holding pattern.Suzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15802031411072405971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-92116297403547904802011-10-14T10:44:38.389-04:002011-10-14T10:44:38.389-04:00This breaks my heart. :( You don't have anyth...This breaks my heart. :( You don't have anything to apologize for. You cannot help the way you feel. I already told you, but I'll say it again, I am always here if you need me! Love you bunches.Erin @ The Grass Skirthttp://thegrassskirtblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-65491048217783301052011-10-14T10:22:48.611-04:002011-10-14T10:22:48.611-04:00I really enjoy your blog(I'm a pilot wife too-...I really enjoy your blog(I'm a pilot wife too-I think my hubs used to work at your hubs current airline from what ive read about where he's based-but I can't be SURE. :) <br /><br /><br />I hope this is your month! Fingers crossed for you two!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-35219877308178980452011-10-14T10:18:01.896-04:002011-10-14T10:18:01.896-04:00I don't know if anyone has suggested this or i...I don't know if anyone has suggested this or if you've already tried, but my friend did the Fertility Awareness Method and it helped her get pregnant pretty quickly. I'm not sure the ins and outs of it, but there is a book discussing the details and how to know when you're ovulating and when to try to conceive. <br /><br />I have no experience with this as I haven't tried to get pregnant yet but I feel for you. I've had lots of friends that have tried and miscarried several times. Some did end up getting pregnant (two of the with twins!!) and some ended up adopting but both are happy!! So I know it will work out!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13535837484428951999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-53384696956165742482011-10-14T08:41:28.972-04:002011-10-14T08:41:28.972-04:00hugs <3hugs <3Caitlin at Healthy Tipping Pointhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04044723396443314806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6606533226035762446.post-80049715892607248942011-10-14T08:14:20.489-04:002011-10-14T08:14:20.489-04:00This just breaks my heart! I can't imagine ho...This just breaks my heart! I can't imagine how frustrating this must be for you. I know I never have the right things to say - but you know I'm always here to listen. xxCindi Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14803508095641659866noreply@blogger.com